I Can't Complain - (All Too) Personal Essays

From the beloved and acclaimed novelist, a collection of witty, moving essays.In her two decades of writing, Elinor Lipman has populated her fictional universe with characters so utterly real that we feel like they’re old friends. Now she shares an even more intimate world with us—her own—in essays that offer a candid, charming take on modern life. Looking back and forging ahead, she considers the subjects that matter most: childhood and condiments, long marriage and solo living, career and politics.

Here you’ll find the lighthearted: a celebration of four decades of All My Children, a reflection on being Jewish in heavily Irish-Catholic Lowell on St. Patrick’s Day, a hilariously unflinching account of her tiptoe into online dating. But she also tackles the serious and profound in eloquent stories of unexpected widowhood and caring for elderly parents that use her struggles to illuminate ours. Whether for Lipman’s longtime readers or those who love the essays of Nora Ephron or Anna Quindlen, I Can't Complain is a diverting delight.

What happens when a celebrated novelist turns the lens on her own life?

Witty Observations: From a phobia of condiments to the politics of writing book blurbs, Lipman finds the hilarious in the everyday. Family, Loss, and Love: Poignant reflections on a long marriage, the trials of caring for aging parents, and navigating the world after unexpected loss. Dating After Loss: A hilariously candid account of dipping a toe into the world of online dating and discovering that a "nomance" can be just as interesting as a romance. For Fans of Nora Ephron: If you love sharp, funny, and heartfelt essays by women about the lives they've lived, you'll find a new favorite in Elinor Lipman.