Letters to His Son, 1750 - On the Fine Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman

Letters to His Son, 1750 is a collection of letters by Philip Dormer Stanhope. Stanhope was a British statesman, civil servant, and man of letters, and an admired wit of his time. Excerpt: "How go, your pleasures at Rome? Are you in fashion there? that is, do you live with the people who are?—the only way of being so yourself, in time. Are you domestic enough in any considerable house to be called 'le petit Stanhope'? Has any woman of fashion and good-breeding taken the trouble of abusing and laughing at you amicably to your face? Have you found a good 'decrotteuse'. For those are the steps by which you must rise to politeness. I do not presume to ask if you have any attachment, because I believe you will not make me your confident; but this I will say, eventually, that if you have one, 'il faut bien payer d'attentions et de petits soin', if you would have your sacrifice propitiously received. Women are not so much taken by beauty as men are, but prefer those men who show them the most attention."